Fushatat zgjedhore nuk jan\u00eb m\u00eb beteja idesh\u2014jan\u00eb sh\u00ebndrruar n\u00eb gara p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur m\u00eb fort, p\u00ebr t\u00eb ulur m\u00eb posht\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb goditur m\u00eb ashp\u00ebr. Retorika e bullizmit nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb aksident i politik\u00ebs shqiptare, por nj\u00eb strategji e mir\u00ebmenduar: ajo nuk synon vet\u00ebm kund\u00ebrshtar\u00ebt, por edhe votuesit. Kur debati politik mbulohet nga fyerjet, njer\u00ebzit lodhen, shp\u00ebrqendrohen, humbin besimin se di\u00e7ka mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb. Dhe kur njer\u00ebzit dor\u00ebzohen, ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb pushtet fitojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nga nj\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim i sjelljes njer\u00ebzore, ky fenomen \u00ebsht\u00eb i parashikuesh\u00ebm. Kur nj\u00eb individ p\u00ebrballet me stres t\u00eb vazhduesh\u00ebm, reagimet kryesore jan\u00eb \u201cfight\u201d or \u201cflight\u201d pra lufta ose arratia. N\u00eb politik\u00eb, \u201clufta\u201d do t\u00eb thoshte angazhim aktiv, vot\u00eb nd\u00ebshkuese, k\u00ebrkes\u00eb p\u00ebr llogaridh\u00ebnie. Por bullizmi krijon nj\u00eb efekt tjet\u00ebr: ai b\u00ebn q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb zgjedhin \u201carratin\u00eb\u201d\u2014t\u00ebrheqjen nga politika, indiferenc\u00ebn, cinizmin. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb form\u00eb e manipulimi psikologjik: b\u00ebj njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb pafuqish\u00ebm dhe ata nuk do t\u00eb sfidojn\u00eb kurr\u00eb status quo-n\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bullizmi n\u00eb politik\u00eb funksionon si nj\u00eb epidemi: ai p\u00ebrs\u00ebritet aq shpesh, aq ngulmuesh\u00ebm, sa b\u00ebhet ngjit\u00ebs. Fillimisht na trondit, pastaj na lodh, dhe n\u00eb fund na duket normal. Deri kur? Deri kur dikush zgjedh t\u00eb mos e pranoj\u00eb m\u00eb si norm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ndaj zgjedhjet e k\u00ebtij viti nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr emra dhe parti, por p\u00ebr t\u00eb vendosur n\u00ebse do t\u00eb vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb helmuar nga frika dhe fyerjet, apo n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri ku argumenti mposht dhun\u00ebn verbale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si ndryshon kjo? Duke e kuptuar loj\u00ebn. Duke mos u t\u00ebrhequr. Duke e refuzuar k\u00ebt\u00eb gjuh\u00eb, jo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb zgjedhje, por \u00e7do dit\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse bullizmi ka nj\u00eb efekt domino, edhe dinjiteti dhe argumenti e kan\u00eb. Dikush duhet ta shtyj\u00eb gurin e par\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Fushatat zgjedhore nuk jan\u00eb m\u00eb beteja idesh\u2014jan\u00eb sh\u00ebndrruar n\u00eb gara p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur m\u00eb fort, p\u00ebr t\u00eb ulur m\u00eb posht\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb goditur m\u00eb ashp\u00ebr. Retorika e bullizmit nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb aksident i politik\u00ebs shqiptare, por nj\u00eb strategji e mir\u00ebmenduar: ajo nuk synon vet\u00ebm kund\u00ebrshtar\u00ebt, por edhe votuesit. Kur debati politik mbulohet nga fyerjet, njer\u00ebzit […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4241,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4240","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nelidemi.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4240","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nelidemi.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nelidemi.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nelidemi.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nelidemi.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4240"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/nelidemi.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4240\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4242,"href":"https:\/\/nelidemi.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4240\/revisions\/4242"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nelidemi.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4241"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nelidemi.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4240"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nelidemi.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4240"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nelidemi.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4240"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}