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\u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn t\u00ebnde.\u201d Kjo ishte fjalia q\u00eb d\u00ebgjonim shpesh kur ishim f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Na e thoshin baballar\u00ebt tan\u00eb kur donin t\u00eb na udh\u00ebhiqnin, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb me but\u00ebsi, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb me ashp\u00ebrsi. Kur na thoshin se nuk ishim \u201cmjaftuesh\u00ebm t\u00eb mir\u00eb\u201d, se mund t\u00eb b\u00ebheshim m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, por vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse ndiqnim at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt d\u00ebshironin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sot, n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Baballar\u00ebve, nuk mund t\u00eb mos mendoj p\u00ebr dallimin midis nj\u00eb babai t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb \u201cAti t\u00eb Kombit\u201d q\u00eb p\u00ebrdor autoritetin jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetur, por p\u00ebr t\u00eb posht\u00ebruar. Kryeministri po i b\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije p\u00ebr nj\u00eb rezultat q\u00eb nuk i plot\u00ebson pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb e tij. Dhe m\u00eb e r\u00ebnda? Po e b\u00ebn p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb turme q\u00eb qesh. Nj\u00eb e qeshur e sforcuar, p\u00ebr mos t’i prishur balancat me kryeministrin. Nj\u00eb refleks i frik\u00ebs dhe i n\u00ebnshtrimit ndaj pushtetit. Askush nuk pyet: \u201cSi ndihet ky f\u00ebmij\u00eb?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Disa do thon\u00eb: \u201cE b\u00ebri mir\u00eb, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb realiteti.\u201d T\u00eb tjer\u00eb mund t\u00eb thon\u00eb: \u201cEdhe ne k\u00ebshtu na rrit\u00ebn, dhe ja ku jemi.\u201d Por le ta themi qart\u00eb: askush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb i shk\u00eblqyer nga turpi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Posht\u00ebrimi nuk t\u00eb jep fuqi, t\u00eb merr. Ai m\u00ebson f\u00ebmij\u00ebn se vlera e tij varet nga suksesi i jasht\u00ebm dhe jo nga rritja e tij e brendshme, se dashuria dhe respekti nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb drejta themelore, por shp\u00ebrblime q\u00eb duhen fituar. Se gabimet jan\u00eb d\u00ebnime, jo m\u00ebsime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por le t\u00eb shtrojm\u00eb nj\u00eb pyetje t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A do ta pranonte ai q\u00eb dikush t\u2019i b\u00ebrtiste f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tij n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A do t\u00eb qeshte n\u00ebse turma do t\u00eb duartrokiste nd\u00ebrsa f\u00ebmija i tij ndihej i posht\u00ebruar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shum\u00eb prej atyre q\u00eb justifikojn\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb tilla nuk do ta pranonin kurr\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebsues, nj\u00eb trajner apo nj\u00eb epror t\u2019u fliste f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre me p\u00ebr\u00e7mim. Sepse kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit tan\u00eb, e dim\u00eb instinktivisht sa i d\u00ebmshm\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb posht\u00ebrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At\u00ebher\u00eb, pse duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb ndryshe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb tjet\u00ebr? Apo p\u00ebr nj\u00eb qytetar t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Une i shoh \u00e7do dit\u00eb pasojat e ketyre formave t\u00eb shtremberuara t\u00eb prinderitmit: t\u00eb rritur q\u00eb ende mbajn\u00eb mbi supe pesh\u00ebn e qortimeve t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb, t\u00eb ngarkuar me pasigurin\u00eb se nuk jan\u00eb \u201cmjaftuesh\u00ebm t\u00eb mir\u00eb.\u201d Por f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk rriten t\u00eb fort\u00eb nga frika. Ata rriten kur ndihen t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetur, kur u lejohet t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb gabime dhe t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb prej tyre, kur kan\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb beson tek ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Baballar\u00ebve, le t\u00eb kujtojm\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh v\u00ebrtet baba. Nj\u00eb baba i mir\u00eb nuk e posht\u00ebron f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb \u201cm\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb\u201d. Nj\u00eb lider i mir\u00eb nuk e ushqen turm\u00ebn me posht\u00ebrimin e nj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shqip\u00ebria ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr udh\u00ebheq\u00ebs q\u00eb frym\u00ebzojn\u00eb dhe mb\u00ebshtesin, jo p\u00ebr nj\u00eb sistem q\u00eb ushqen frik\u00eb dhe n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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